This article is from Simple Truths by M.Anderson ... not sure wether he wrote it or was written by someone else ... however ... this sure is one eye opener!!!
My take as usual .... Ask ..... n Ask again .... till u get a reply/ answer .. maximum ... u shall get an answer which isnt wot u wanted to hear , but u got an answer .... n this is the only way u can also get the answer to wot u have been looking for !!! Be a DREAMER ( I wasnt called Dreamer n school for nothing !! ) .... n listen to the advice of the DOUBTER.... perfect combination!!!!
Cheers ...
There are many different aspects that live inside of us and two of them I respectfully dubbed the Dreamer and Doubter. When it comes to pursuing our dreams, The Dreamer is often gung ho while the Doubter can provide a laundry list of concerns and issues.
After a speech in Rome, a woman with a beautiful accent asked me to tell her one of my personal dreams. Assuming I'd never see her again, I decided to share a dream I had never spoken out loud, one I had kept such a good secret that even I was beginning to forget it.
"My dream is to spend the summer writing in the Greek Islands," I said all in one breath.
She handed me her card and replied, "I have a villa in Greece. Why don't you come as my guest?"
I was floored and reminded that amazing things happen when we share our dreams. I was elated, or more accurately, part of me was. Here's a peek inside my head. See if this kind of interchange sounds familiar.
Dreamer: I am so excited!
Doubter: Not me. I don't like this at all. It's far away and could be dangerous.
Dreamer: Nonsense. This is my dream handed to me on a silver platter.
Doubter/Realist (they're close cousins): Who is going to run your business while you're away?
Dreamer: My fabulous team whom I completely trust.
Doubter: Well, how's it going to look to your clients that you are out of the country for three months?
Dreamer: I think as a Dream Coach, it's going to look pretty good.
When you are stuck, procrastinating or worrying, chances are your Doubter has taken over. If ignored, it can sabotage your dreams. So how do you deal with it? Turn the volume down a notch and the Doubter simply becomes the Realist, the part that wants to know where the time and money will come from for your venture.
But before you turn down the Doubter, hear from it. It will give you valuable information such as a list of obstacles that you can manage later. Freedom comes as you appreciate its wisdom and insight rather than judging it as the enemy.
If you never deal with your doubt and you meet another Doubter on the road, their doubt will magnify yours. However, if you have worked with your own doubt, next time a Doubter challenges you, by contrast it will be the opportunity to deepen your commitment and conviction to your dream.
The true joy in life, is being used for a purpose, recognized by yourself as a Mighty One, being a True Force of nature instead of a feverish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy…..
I want to be thoroughly used up when I die….For the harder I work, the more I live….I rejoice in life for its own sake….
Life, is no brief candle to me, it's a splendid torch, which I've got to hold up for the moment, and, I want to make it burn as brightly as possible, before handing it on to the future generations!!!!!
